The instinct is to size a system that runs everything the grid used to — and that way lies a battery bank the size of a wardrobe and a bill to match. The clear thought is the opposite: most of what a house draws doesn’t matter in a crisis, and a handful of things matter enormously. Power the handful properly and let the rest wait.
So the first job isn’t sizing a system. It’s sorting every load into three honest piles.
A medical fridge if someone needs one, a little light, a way to charge the phone and radio, the water pump. Small in watts, absolute in need.
Fans in the heat, a laptop, tools now and then. Run them when the sun’s been generous; ease off when it hasn’t.
Water heating, air-conditioning, the iron. Comforts the grid made thoughtless. In a hard month they wait — and that decision is what keeps the system affordable.
Most of what a house draws can wait — size for the small critical slice.